Slightly Obsessed #191: You Can Give Others the Gift of Courage by Pamela Thorson on 2017-08-02 11:51:43
Therefore encourage one another and build up one another, just as you also are doing.
-1 Thessalonians 5:11
My father lay propped up in the hospital bed, his face ashen against the white sheets. My step-mother and I huddled around him in the cramped space of the progressive care unit in which he was recuperating. He had suffered three heart attacks in the space of one month. None of us had gotten much sleep in the last few days. So far, we had seen little of either the hospitalist in charge of his care or the cardiologist on staff.
We waited all day for the cardiologist. Finally, he appeared, towering above us in his long white lab coat. The aggressive stance, the scowl on his face, and the stethoscope that dangled around his neck kept us adequately reminded of his importance as he recited the results of Dad’s tests in rapid-fire secession. Mentally, he had already left the room.
When he took a breath, I ventured a question about one of my father’s lab results. Angered that I dare speak, he shot me down in a spray of loud verbal bullets. I was embarrassed into shocked silence.
On the way home from the hospital, my humiliation churned into anger as the weight of the last month’s struggles crashed down upon me. I was totally disheartened.
Since I had missed lunch, I turned into a local fast food restaurant and got into the line at the drive-thru. Ahead of me sat a big white four-wheel drive pickup with huge tires. Behind the wheel sat a young Native American man in sunglasses. Emblazoned across the tinted back window of his rig were the words, “REZNECKS.” I smiled, since I’ve lived on the reservation for most of my life. The knot in my stomach began to ease as I waited impatiently to get back on the road toward home and my refuge.
When my turn finally came to pick up my meal, the server was beaming. “I have the pleasure of telling you that the man in the white pickup ahead of you has paid for your meal,” she said. “He just wanted me to tell you to have a good day.”
What a beautiful God we serve. I cried all the way home.
Our English word encourage comes from the French word encoragier, which means to make strong or to impart courage. In a world that values aggression, God calls us to kindness. As the conduit connecting God to His beloved creation, our job in this space in time is to inspire others to greatness. We hold in our hands the power to bring renewed hope to others who are having the life choked out of them. One generous moment can rebuild someone’s world and give her the courage to go on another day.
Yes, I paid for the meal of the man in the car behind me that day. I’m asking God to grant me the grace to extend to people who are hard to like, much less love. And I pray that God will remind me to take my eyes off my own troubles long enough to notice others around me and to seize the opportunities He gives me to be an encourager.
About Pamela Thorson:
Pamela Thorson is a licensed practical nurse, author, and full-time caregiver. She pioneered in the homeschooling movement from 1982-2006 and authored her first book, Song in the Night, in 2008. Her second book, Out from the Shadows: 31 Devotions for the Weary Caregiver, released in 2014. She resides in the Northwest with her family.
If nothing else good should happen to us except salvation, it is enough to fill our every moment with His praise.
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